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Lolsnake: Using Techno to Build a Safe Space for Outsiders and Queer Expression Berlin-based DJ and producer Lolsnake has been using their platform to create spaces for those who feel like outsiders in the electronic music scene. Known for their hypnotic techno and their queer-focused party Weeeirdos , Lolsnake is carving out a space where individuality and inclusivity reign supreme. We caught up with their to discuss their journey, from growing up as an outsider to becoming a prominent figure in Berlin’s underground techno scene. In this raw conversation, Lolsnake opens up about their personal experience of discovering their queerness, their thoughts on the politics of the techno scene, and how they're using their music and events to create togetherness for other outsiders. It’s a story of self-discovery, empowerment, and the fight for a more inclusive, welcoming space within techno culture. From Outsider to Icon: Lolsnake’s Journey of Self-Discovery Lolsnake's story begins like many others, with a feeling of not quite fitting in. Growing up, they struggled with their identity, feeling as though they didn’t belong in any one box. It wasn’t until they found themself in Berlin, however, that they truly began to understand their queerness and how to express it authentically. “I always felt like an outsider. I wasn’t the type to follow the mainstream or fit into a specific group,” Lolsnake says. “But when I came to Berlin, I finally felt like I could be myself, unapologetically.” It was in the city’s underground club scene that Lolsnake found their true calling. The openness of Berlin’s culture allowed their to explore their identity, which they soon realized was tied not just to their queerness but also to the power of techno as a form of self-expression. Techno, for Lolsnake, became more than just music—it was a way to unite others who felt like outsiders, offering them a space to feel accepted and celebrated. The hypnotic beats and raw energy of techno created the backdrop for a new kind of community, one that was inclusive and open-minded, where individuality was not only accepted but embraced. Weeeirdos: A Party for the Outsiders As a DJ and promoter, Lolsnake is committed to creating safe spaces where queer people and outsiders can gather, express themselves, and dance freely. Weeeirdos , their queer techno party, has become a go-to event for anyone seeking an escape from the mainstream and a place to let go. “I wanted to create a space where people who feel like they don’t belong in the regular world can come together and be free,” they explains. “ Weeeirdos  is all about finding solidarity with each other, creating a safe environment where people can express themselves without fear of judgment.” The party has been incredibly successful in doing just that. It’s a space where anyone, regardless of their gender identity, sexual orientation, or background, can come together and feel seen. Lolsnake's dedication to inclusivity has made Weeeirdos  a hub for Berlin's queer and techno communities, pushing the boundaries of what it means to create an inclusive and accepting space in the underground music scene. Lolsnake: Using Techno to Build a Safe Space for Outsiders and Queer Expression Techno Politics: Booking, Power, and Change in the Scene While Lolsnake’s rise to prominence in the techno scene has been exciting, they're not blind to the politics of booking and the way the scene operates. In their conversation with Playful Magazine, they touche on the importance of being aware of the structures in place that shape who gets a platform and who doesn’t. “It’s not just about the music; it’s also about the politics behind who gets to play where,” Lolsnake notes. “In the techno world, there’s a lot of gatekeeping, and we have to acknowledge the way certain people are excluded because of who they are.” Lolsnake is vocal about their desire to change these dynamics. As a queer woman in the scene, they recognizes the power that comes with being in a position to amplify marginalized voices. Their own success, they believe, is a testament to the power of inclusivity, and they're dedicated to opening doors for others who don’t fit the stereotypical image of a DJ or producer. For Lolsnake, it’s not just about playing the game—it's about changing it from within. They advocates for more diverse bookings, less tokenism, and more genuine efforts to showcase the talents of underrepresented groups within the techno scene. The Future of Techno: What We Need to Look Out For As the techno scene continues to grow, Lolsnake believes it’s crucial to stay vigilant and continue pushing for inclusivity. In their opinion, the scene needs to evolve into a more accepting, diverse space, free from exclusion and discrimination. “We need to be aware of who is being given opportunities and why,” they explain. “We need to ask ourselves who we’re leaving out and why that’s happening. The scene should be for everyone, not just for a select few.” While there has been progress in terms of visibility and acceptance, Lolsnake urges the community to stay aware of the ways in which power dynamics can still hold certain groups back. It’s not enough to simply pay lip service to inclusivity; we need to actively work towards creating spaces where everyone feels welcome and valued. Lolsnake’s Impact: More Than Just a DJ At the end of the day, Lolsnake’s mission is simple: to create a space for people to be themselves, to feel accepted, and to express their identities freely. Through their hypnotic techno and their work with Weeeirdos , they've been able to give a voice to those who have often been marginalized in the mainstream music industry. “Techno has always been a space for outsiders,” they say. “It’s about creating togetherness, community, and solidarity.” With their commitment to building inclusive spaces and fighting for more representation, Lolsnake’s influence on the Berlin techno scene—and beyond—is undeniable. For anyone who feels like an outsider, Lolsnake has shown that the power of music can be a tool for liberation and expression.

Recovering from Chemsex: A Survivor's Story Berlin’s underground party scene is infamous for its hedonism, but for many, the pursuit of pleasure comes with a darker side. Chemsex—the fusion of sex and powerful stimulants like methamphetamine, GHB, and mephedrone—offers a temporary escape, but often leads to addiction, self-destruction, and isolation. In this gripping episode of Playful Podcast , we sit down with Fellball, a survivor of chemsex addiction, as he shares his raw and deeply personal story. From growing up in a conservative Catholic village where his sexuality was shamed, to losing himself in Berlin’s chemsex scene, to finally finding his way back through recovery—Fellball’s journey is one of struggle, resilience, and rediscovery. This article delves into the realities of chemsex, the blurred lines between consent and coercion, and the fight to reclaim intimacy beyond substances. Whether you’ve experienced it firsthand or are simply seeking to understand the hidden world of chemsex, this is a conversation that needs to be heard. Breaking Free: One Man’s Journey from Chemsex Addiction to Recovery Chemsex—the fusion of sex and powerful stimulant drugs like methamphetamine, GHB, and mephedrone—has become a widespread phenomenon in underground party scenes. While it offers the illusion of uninhibited pleasure and endless energy, the reality is often one of dependency, self-destruction, and isolation. In this deeply personal episode of Playful Podcast, we sit down with Fellball, a recovering chemsex addict, who bravely shares his journey through addiction, the painful cycles of relapse, and his fight to reclaim intimacy and self-worth beyond substances. From Shame to Addiction: The Path to Chemsex Fellball’s story is one of both pain and resilience: Growing up in a strict Catholic German village, where his sexuality was suppressed and shamed. Moving to Berlin, where he discovered chemsex parties, a scene that initially felt freeing but soon became suffocating. The insidious cycle of addiction, from the highs of chemically-induced euphoria to the crushing lows of withdrawal and shame. His battle through multiple rehabilitation centers, the setbacks, and the ultimate turning point that led him toward recovery. The Reality of Chemsex: Euphoria with Devastating Costs While chemsex can offer a temporary escape, it carries profound dangers. We dive into: How stimulant drugs hijack the brain’s reward system, creating a dangerous dependency loop. The harsh physical and mental health toll, including severe anxiety, paranoia, and depression. The blurred lines between consent and coercion in chemsex environments, leaving many vulnerable. The challenge of breaking free when sex and drugs become inextricably linked. The Journey to Recovery: Rebuilding Life and Sexuality Recovery from chemsex addiction is not just about quitting drugs—it’s about relearning intimacy, self-worth, and pleasure. Fellball shares: How he is navigating relationships, attraction, and intimacy without substances. The role of therapy, peer support, and personal reflection in his healing process. How he continues to embrace his kink and fetish identity in a sober space. Why he believes education, open conversations, and harm reduction strategies are crucial for preventing others from falling into the same cycle. Recovering from Chemsex: A Survivor's Story Seeking Help: Resources for Those Struggling If you or someone you know is battling chemsex dependency or drug addiction, support is available: Vista Berlin – Drug and addiction counseling in English: vistaberlin.de Notdienst Berlin – Emergency services for individuals at risk of addiction: drogennotdienst.de This episode of Playful Podcast is an unfiltered, deeply emotional exploration of chemsex addiction and recovery. Whether you are personally struggling, know someone who is, or simply want to understand more about the intersection of sex, drugs, and mental health, this conversation offers invaluable insights. Follow Fellball on Instagram: @fuckart_berlin Follow Amanda on Instagram: @amanda.sandst Follow Playful Magazine for more on underground culture: @playful.mag

Few figures in Berlin’s underground scene command the same level of intrigue as Sven Marquardt. The heavily tattooed, silver-bearded sentinel of Berghain’s infamous door has spent decades curating the club’s inner sanctum, ensuring that its energy remains intact. But beyond the velvet rope, Marquardt is also an artist, photographer, and a man deeply embedded in fashion and Berlin’s creative landscape. Photos by Shanelle De Melo for Playful Magazine No, It’s Not Just About Your Outfit: Sven Marquardt on Berghain’s Entry Code We go deeper into the philosophy behind his selections at Berghain, his evolution as an artist, and how his sharp visual aesthetic bleeds into both his photography and his personal style. The Art of the Door: Who Gets In? For those outside the scene, the Berghain door policy is wrapped in myth. Stories of arbitrary rejection, whispered ‘rules,’ and the club’s near-mystical reputation have fueled countless Reddit threads and viral TikToks. But Marquardt’s approach is neither random nor formulaic—it’s instinctual. “People assume there’s a checklist. That it’s about what you wear, or who you know. But it’s not that simple. It’s about energy. If you don’t fit, you don’t fit.” Over the years, Marquardt has become a master of reading people—not just how they look, but how they carry themselves. It’s a skill honed over decades, first as a teenage punk rebelling in the East Berlin underground, then as a photographer capturing raw, human emotion. “Berghain is a space for those who understand it. You can’t fake it.” He’s seen it all—the posers, the tourists, the ones who try too hard. And yet, some of the most unexpected people have walked through the doors and belonged instantly. It’s not about exclusivity. It’s about protecting the essence of the space. No, It’s Not Just About Your Outfit: Sven Marquardt on Berghain’s Entry Code Sven Marquardt, the Photographer: Capturing Berghains Soul Before he was the face of Berghain’s door, Marquardt was behind the lens. His photography—stark, intimate, always in black and white—chronicles Berlin’s ever-shifting identity. Growing up in the GDR’s punk and new-wave subcultures, he started shooting as a way to document his surroundings. The images were raw, rebellious, full of tension. Decades later, his work still carries that same emotional weight. “I don’t do nostalgia, but I respect history. I shoot in black and white because it strips away distractions. What’s left is pure feeling.” His exhibitions, from Friedrichstadt-Palast’s ‘Stageless’ to international gallery showcases, explore themes of intimacy, identity, and Berlin’s ever-present undercurrent of reinvention. Whether he’s shooting a seasoned clubber at sunrise or a model in deconstructed couture, the result is always the same: a moment frozen in time, yet vibrating with life and deep emotions. Fashion as Identity and Aesthetic Marquardt’s fashion sense is a visual extension of his artistic vision. With structured silhouettes, a bold interplay of textures, and a preference for avant-garde designers, he embodies Berlin’s uncompromising aesthetic. “Fashion is movement. It’s the way we tell people who we are—without saying a word.” His wardrobe is a mix of brutalist minimalism and high-impact statement pieces. Think Rick Owens, Yohji Yamamoto, vintage Helmut Lang. And yet, just as he rejects strict formulas at Berghain’s door, he refuses to be boxed in by any single look. “You evolve. What I wore in the ’80s isn’t what I wear now. But the energy is the same.” Whether it’s neon details, his collection of eyewear, or his embrace of new designers pushing boundaries, Marquardt approaches fashion the same way he approaches photography: with precision, intention, and an eye for the unexpected. Sven Marquardt on Playful Magazine's cover Berlin Now: A City in Flux Marquardt has seen Berlin through seismic shifts—from the fall of the Wall to the techno explosion of the ’90s, the gentrification waves, and the post-pandemic clubbing landscape. The city’s energy, once defined by grit and rebellion, is now facing new pressures. “Berlin needs to remember where it came from. Creativity isn’t just about aesthetics—it’s about resistance.” As clubs fight against rising rents, over-policing, and commercialization, Marquardt believes the next generation must protect the scene’s raw, unfiltered spirit. It’s not just about keeping Berghain’s door strict—it’s about keeping Berlin, Berlin. “If the new generation stops fighting for it, the Berlin we love won’t exist.” The Keeper of Energy To some, Sven Marquardt is a gatekeeper. To others, he’s a curator, an artist, a protector of something bigger than a club. Whatever title fits, one thing remains clear: his presence, whether at the door, behind a camera, or in a gallery, shapes Berlin’s underground in ways few others can. “Every crisis contains a chance for positive change.” And as long as Marquardt stands at Berghain’s entrance, that change will be on his terms.

Martyna Maja has been busy. She’s about to embark on her biggest international tour so far after her breakthrough. Playful catches up with one of Berlin's most hyped DJ’s – VTSS. Text by: Amanda Sandström Beijer Photos by: Marta Michalak VTSS interview for Playful Magazine How do you get inspiration when feeling uninspired? ” I talk to the right people. One of the main reasons that I moved to Berlin was to be surrounded by the right people. I feel that I am, and they’re there for me whenever I need them. Of course I’m there for them too. It’s not nature, city or music that gets me going, but conversations with people. However a sick DJ in Säule or Berghain can also do the trick.” Is there anything that can kill your inspiration? ” Oh mostly work and deadline related anxiety and during this intense year there has been a lot of that. I usually agree to play three times a week so with a lot of traveling it doesn’t leave much time for other things, and all the administrative, organizational work that goes with all that is usually the biggest bummer for me.” Who has been your biggest inspiration in techno? ”I don’t think that I was inspired so much by anyone in particular when I was just learning about techno or DJ:ing. It was in 2018 when I started hanging out full time with some really special people, mostly from Scandinavian regions. Their approach to life, music, artistry and their support has been a strong backbone for me and I’m happy to have them all as friends. Ofc it’s SPFDJ, Bjarki, VARG.” You are touring a lot now, how is the tour life? ” Well CBD helps a lot. Vitamins, not partying every weekend while working, and working out. Making sure your flights allow you to sleep at least 5 hours a day. I’m really happy I have people I can talk to about all the ups and downs of it, without sounding like an ungrateful twat. Me and Lina (SPFDJ) also have each other on a dial to discuss challenges of this life and feel bad for one another, haha, but also keep each other in check. It’s ok. I’m managing.” What is your dream existence like in 2020? ” I’m pretty happy for the moment and I wish things wouldn’t change too much. Everyone needs to stay sane and healthy; I have great people around me who inspire me to work harder, make and play crazier music, be more patient. I wish that I can maintain those relationships while also being able to see my family more.” What do you think is the solution to keep Berlins club life blooming? ” I think that the biggest concern is still safety - with the GHB madness happening around Europe. More drug education would be great in all the regions. I think we should allow more adventurous music and younger artists in between those billed-for-15-years-every-other-month names, we shouldn’t be so scared about the precious techno being ‘ruined’ by younger generations who wants to do their thing. The bro’ club and the fighters ‘of a G O O D T A S T E’ are so 2015. Is spring the best time to be alive or do you even get affected by seasons? ” Last spring I was extremely in love so I’m a bit biased. I’m always cold so I am affected by the seasons, though I kinda like staying indoors, if I have someone to watch gangster movies on Netflix with. I was never the bar type so ‘it’s so cold’ is an excuse I really enjoy and use a lot. I also enjoy leaving a club when it’s still dark outside and that’s easier in the winter. It gives me this illusion of a normal life, haha.” What are you looking forward to this spring? ” I’m doing an extended Asia and Australia tour. I will play around 8 gigs, three weeks away from home. This will be my longest tour of this sort yet. Kinda scary but also super-exciting. I heard that Japan is most beautiful then, and it’s one of the gigs I’m supposed to do with my DJ-bestie. I am really excited to see the other part of the world as well – with someone close around. I’ve always enjoyed being alone. Group hangouts were always a bit overstimulating. However being in so many strange places and relying on only yourself can also get to you.” What is the craziest thing you’ve done in your life? ” I’ve become a professional, international techno dj. It still feels quite wild. Dropping out of great schools, going to sound-engineering school without anyone believing in me was pretty crazy, and the fact that the first month that I had enough money I just packed my Toyota Yaris with Ikea bags of clothes, synths and records and just drove to Berlin kinda still shocks me. Lol, what was I thinking. I was right of course.” What kind of people annoys you the most? ” Just the butt-hurt online techno bro’ gang, who tweets or posts about how everyone new is ruining their precious techno, and how they’re not appreciated and how most of the society has a bad taste in music (they have the good one ofc) and just tries getting pity from some other sad people, just spreading negative energy. There’s shit I don’t like or annoy me with, I really believe in proving everyone wrong but doing what’s right, not just talking.”

On a Date with KI/KI: Love, Touring, and Awkward First Impressions Dating is weird. Even KI/KI thinks so. The Dutch DJ and producer, known for her fast-paced sets and trance-heavy selections, might be a force behind the decks—but when it comes to romance? Let’s just say, she’s as human as the rest of us. At Glitch Festival, Playful Magazine’s Amanda sat down with KI/KI for tea, post-rave exhaustion in full effect, and discovered that even electronic music’s rising stars get awkward on dates. KI/KI on Love & First Impressions A lot of things can make a date go wrong. Bad vibes, no chemistry, or simply—too much eye contact. “I actually get quite awkward on dates. I never know what to say.” Turns out, KI/KI isn’t the smooth talker you’d expect from someone who commands festival crowds. She’s more about letting things flow naturally—but if there’s one thing she looks for, it’s connection without pressure. “A green flag for me? Someone who can just be chill. No forced energy, no trying too hard. Just good vibes.” When it comes to love languages, acts of service win. While some crave words of affirmation or grand gestures, KI/KI appreciates the small things. “It’s the little stuff. Someone bringing you a coffee or doing something thoughtful without being asked.” Bringing Love on Tour? Dating a DJ means navigating late nights, airport sprints, and timezone-induced texts that say ‘good morning’ and ‘good night’ in the same breath. So, would KI/KI bring a partner on tour? “I don’t know if I could do that. I like my own space when I’m on the road.” Some artists bring their lovers along for the ride, but for KI/KI, touring is a headspace. The chaos of travel, the adrenaline of performing, and the need for solitude—it all makes relationships tricky. On a Date with KI/KI: Love, Touring, and Awkward First Impressions Still, she believes in balance. The key is finding someone who gets the lifestyle, without expecting to be part of every moment. “If someone understands the world I’m in and isn’t trying to change it, that’s a good sign.” KI/KI: More Than Just a DJ Beyond the music, KI/KI is someone who appreciates quiet moments, genuine connections, and not taking things too seriously. The high-energy sets, the euphoric drops—those are just one part of the story. “People think DJs are always in party mode, but honestly, I love my downtime. Give me tea, a good conversation, and I’m happy.” Maybe that’s the real secret—whether in music or love, the best moments aren’t the loudest.

Beneath the weight of its storied past, Berlin's underground rave scene means hedonism in a way that no other place on earth can quite replicate. It’s elusive, raw, and unapologetically real. Whether you're a wide-eyed newcomer or a seasoned raver chasing the next euphoric underground club, here are ten secrets to navigating Berlin's underworld of sweat, strobe lights, and sonic transcendence. 10 Secrets of Berlin’s Underground Rave Scene 1. Forget the Line, Learn the Code Your outfit? Secondary. Your energy? Everything. Berlin's doormen are gatekeepers of the vibe, and if you don’t exude the right energy (for the specific night), you’re out before you even step in. Move with quiet confidence, avoid large groups, and if you hear "Heute nicht" (not tonight), take it with grace and try again another time. 2. Telegram Is Your Best Friend Want to know where the real parties are? The ones that aren't advertised, where phones are banned, and where the music vibrates through your ribcage until the break of dawn? Telegram channels and word-of-mouth whispers will get you further than any Google search ever could. 3. Industrial Ruins Turn into Nightlife Sanctuaries Some of the best parties happen in abandoned warehouses, repurposed Cold War bunkers, and forgotten railway depots. If you get a location that sounds bizarre, trust the process. Berlin’s history is written in its spaces, and some of the best raves pay homage to that legacy. 4. The Afterhours Are Where It Gets Interesting Think the party ends when the sun rises? Cute. The real heads migrate to intimate afterparties, often in tiny venues or secret apartments where the music is deeper, the conversations are wilder, and the boundaries between night and day dissolve entirely. 5. Techno Is Sacred, But Diversity Reigns Berlin is techno royalty, but don't get stuck in one loop. Jungle raves in Neukölln basements, queer-friendly industrial EBM in dark Kreuzberg dungeons, electro-clash in attic hideouts—the underground is a patchwork of sonic exploration. Follow your ears. 6. Cash Is King, Cards Are Useless Berlin’s underground runs on cash. Don’t even think about flashing your credit card at the bar. Withdraw before you enter because some ATMs might be miles away (and sketchy as hell). 7. No Photos, No Stories, Just Memories Many venues have a strict no-photo policy. What happens in the smoke-filled rooms and under the pulsating strobes stays there. No one is trying to be an influencer here—they’re trying to live in the moment. 10 Secrets of Berlin’s Underground Rave Scene 8. Don’t Be a Tourist, Be a Participant This isn't Ibiza. No bottle service, no VIP booths, no pretentious flexing. If you're coming to Berlin to "check out the scene," you’ve already lost. Be present, be open, be part of the movement. 9. Berghain Isn’t Everything Yes, it's iconic. Yes, it’s an experience. But Berlin's underground thrives far beyond those infamous walls. Explore the lesser-known clubs, the off-the-map raves, the impromptu gatherings in U-Bahn stations. That’s where you'll find another sort of magic. 10. You’re Here for the Music, Not the Clout The best way to earn respect in Berlin's underground? Know your sound. Whether it's hypnotic techno, gabber, acid house, or breakbeat, immerse yourself. This is a city where music comes first, egos come last, and the dancefloor is sacred. Berlin's rave culture isn't just a night out; it's a philosophy, a movement, a second home for lost souls and sonic wanderers. So if you’re lucky enough to step inside its underground, treat it with the reverence it deserves. Because once you've danced in Berlin, nowhere else quite hits the same.

Starting over after a divorce can be tough, especially when it comes to trusting again. But don’t worry—you’re not alone. Many men face the challenge of rebuilding trust in new relationships after the emotional weight of a separation. Whether you're easing back into the dating scene or looking for a deeper connection, this article will guide you through actionable steps to rebuild trust, gain emotional security, and find the right dating platform for you. Building Trust in New Relationships After Divorce: A Man’s Guide to Starting Fresh Some of the links in this article are affiliate links. This means that if you click through and make a purchase, we may earn a small commission, at no additional cost to you. We only recommend products and services we trust and believe in. 1. Acknowledge Your Emotional Journey and What You Need From a Partner Divorce can feel like a major emotional setback, and it’s natural for those feelings to linger as you enter new relationships. Understand that your fears and hesitations are part of the healing process. The key is recognizing them, so you’re not letting past experiences define your future relationships. Therapy is a great way to navigate these emotions, so you’re emotionally available when the right person comes along. 2. Take Your Time—No Need to Rush Into Anything If you’re diving into dating after divorce, remember: no rush. Taking things slow helps build trust in a sustainable way. The emotional intensity of jumping into a relationship too quickly can be overwhelming, so instead, ease into it with low-pressure situations. This gives you time to evaluate compatibility before diving in deep. Dating platforms like Secret Dating Club  are a great option for those looking for no-strings-attached encounters. It’s the perfect way to dip your toes into dating again without feeling too committed. 3. Be Clear About Your Boundaries—But Don’t Build Walls While rebuilding trust after divorce is key, it’s also important to establish clear boundaries. Setting healthy boundaries helps you protect your emotional space while being open to intimacy. Platforms like Flure  can help men like you find open-minded connections, making it easier to get comfortable with new relationships without feeling rushed. 4. Honesty Is Crucial, But Don’t Over-share Too Early Trust is built on honesty. But remember, new relationships require patience. Start with sharing only what you're comfortable with and allow your partner to reveal their own journey. This creates a natural rhythm where both parties feel heard and respected. For those looking for more serious relationships, Life for Love  is the perfect platform to find someone who’s ready for a committed relationship. Building Trust in New Relationships After Divorce: A Man’s Guide to Starting Fresh 5. Don’t Compare Your New Partner to Your Ex One of the biggest mistakes men make after divorce is comparing their new partner to their ex. Remember, every relationship is different, and it’s important to embrace the uniqueness of each person you meet. Building trust is about appreciating each person for who they are. 6. Be Vulnerable—Letting Your Guard Down Helps Build Trust True intimacy comes when you open up to someone new. After divorce, you might be cautious about letting your guard down, but vulnerability is essential for creating lasting connections. Start Rebuilding Your Trust Today Rebuilding trust after divorce takes time and patience, but it’s possible. Whether you’re looking for casual connections or something more serious, make sure you take it slow, set boundaries, and be honest with yourself and others.

Berlin is a city known for its openness, inclusivity, and vibrant cultural scene, which extends to its approach to love and relationships. Among its many subcultures, Berlin is home to a thriving polyamory and open relationship community where love and kink often intersect in fascinating and meaningful ways. Here, ethical non-monogamy is not just accepted—it’s celebrated, and the city provides a wealth of events, workshops, and safe spaces where those who practice polyamory can connect, learn, and explore their desires. Berlin’s Polyamory and Open Relationship Communities: Kink and Love in the City Polyamory and Open Relationships in Berlin: A Culture of Acceptance Berlin has long been a haven for alternative lifestyles, and polyamory and open relationships are no exception. The city’s progressive, sex-positive ethos has fostered a culture where non-monogamous relationships are embraced with a level of respect and curiosity not always seen in other parts of the world. This open-minded atmosphere creates a supportive environment for those exploring ethical non-monogamy, where individuals and couples can seek love, intimacy, and connection with multiple partners, all while maintaining healthy communication and mutual respect. Whether you’re already involved in an open relationship, considering polyamory for the first time, or simply curious, Berlin offers plenty of opportunities to engage with this community. Polyamory and Kink: Where Love and Desire Meet One of the most interesting aspects of Berlin’s polyamory and open relationship scene is how it intersects with the city’s thriving kink culture. Kink and polyamory share a foundation of open communication, trust, and a focus on personal desires—making them natural allies in Berlin's sex-positive community. In fact, many people who practice polyamory also incorporate kink into their relationships, exploring a wide range of desires through BDSM, fetishes, and roleplay. Berlin’s kink scene is deeply integrated with the polyamorous community, and for many, these two aspects of love and intimacy go hand-in-hand. Whether through group dynamics, relationship anarchy, or exploring power dynamics, Berlin’s poly kink community embraces diversity, supporting a range of sexualities and relationship structures. The city’s willingness to explore all facets of love and desire allows people to be open about their needs, including the desire to incorporate kink into polyamorous relationships. Events and Spaces for Polyamory and Open Relationships Berlin’s polyamory and open relationship communities have access to numerous events and spaces designed specifically for those practicing or interested in ethical non-monogamy. Some of these events focus on education and skill-building, while others are more about socializing and meeting like-minded individuals. Polyamory Meetups & Discussion Groups : These gatherings are designed to offer support, share experiences, and discuss the complexities of polyamory. They’re ideal for those who want to connect with others who share similar values around love and intimacy, and they provide a non-judgmental space to discuss everything from communication strategies to jealousy management. Workshops & Seminars : Many spaces in Berlin offer workshops that cover everything from practical skills, like navigating boundaries in poly relationships, to more specific topics, such as how kink and polyamory can intersect. These workshops provide valuable insight and tools for maintaining healthy, ethical, and fulfilling non-monogamous relationships. Social Events and Kink Parties : Berlin is famous for its party scene, and its polyamory and kink communities are no exception. Events like PolyF  and Kink@Folsom  bring together those who want to explore alternative relationship dynamics in a fun, open, and supportive environment. These events often feature mixers, themed parties, and play spaces where kink and polyamory can coexist. Berlin’s Role as a Safe Haven for Ethical Non-Monogamy One of the unique aspects of Berlin’s polyamory and open relationship communities is the city’s reputation as a safe and inclusive space for people of all sexual orientations, identities, and relationship preferences. The community thrives in a non-judgmental environment where the exploration of different forms of love and connection is not only accepted but also encouraged. Berlin’s progressive attitude towards polyamory and open relationships fosters a supportive atmosphere where individuals can freely express their desires, challenge conventional norms, and live authentically without fear of stigma or discrimination. This inclusive attitude is reflected in the diversity of spaces available to the community, from intimate discussion groups to larger events where people can come together and form connections. Navigating the Intersection of Kink and Love in Berlin For many who practice polyamory or open relationships in Berlin, the intersection of kink and love is not just about sexual exploration but also about building deeper emotional connections with multiple partners. Berlin encourages individuals to explore their desires in a way that fosters intimacy, trust, and respect. Kink, in this context, is not just about power dynamics and fetishes—it’s also about understanding vulnerability, communication, and the emotional depth that can be achieved through exploring shared desires. With an abundance of events, meetups, and resources available, Berlin’s polyamory and open relationship communities are dynamic, diverse, and constantly evolving. Whether you're seeking guidance, looking to connect with like-minded individuals, or simply curious about exploring new relationship structures, Berlin’s non-monogamous scene offers an open and accepting space for people to explore, learn, and love freely. Berlin’s polyamory and open relationship communities are an essential part of the city's progressive culture, offering a space where love, kink, and ethical non-monogamy can flourish. With its inclusive attitude, rich variety of events, and deep integration with Berlin's kink scene, the city provides endless opportunities for those looking to explore new ways of loving, living, and connecting with others. Whether you're looking to explore polyamory, delve into kink, or simply understand more about how these communities intersect, Berlin is a welcoming and exciting place to begin your journey.

Deva: The Medical Fetish Dominatrix Redefining Kink and Power Play Inside the World of Medical and Dental Fetishes with Deva In the realm of fetish exploration, Deva stands out as both a practitioner and a guide. As a medical fetish dominatrix and expert in dental fetishes, she pushes the boundaries of desire, pain, and psychological play. More than just a dominatrix, she serves as a mentor for those looking to discover and embrace their own fetishes, offering insights into how and why these desires form. In this Playful Magazine documentary, we sit down with Deva to explore the intersection of power, pleasure, and psychological conditioning in fetish culture. She unpacks the origins of medical and dental fetishes, discussing whether they have Freudian roots or are shaped by personal experiences. She also walks us through the structure of a session, explaining how controlled dominance, sensory play, and the aesthetics of the clinical setting heighten arousal and submission. Deva: The Medical Fetish Dominatrix Redefining Kink and Power Play Where Do Fetishes Come From? One of the most fascinating aspects of Deva’s work is her approach to understanding where fetishes originate. Are they embedded in childhood experiences? Do they stem from deep-seated psychological triggers? Or are they purely about aesthetics and control? According to Deva, it’s often a mix of all three. She explains how dental and medical fetishes, in particular, have a unique psychological component: Power dynamics  – The authority of a doctor or dentist figure plays into submission and control. Sensory stimulation  – The sterile environment, latex gloves, and metal instruments trigger specific responses. Fear and arousal  – The mix of anxiety and anticipation creates an adrenaline-fueled experience. Finding Your Own Fetish Beyond her own work, Deva teaches others how to identify and embrace their own fetishes, emphasizing that kink is deeply personal and varies from person to person. She guides individuals through self-exploration exercises to help them unlock their hidden desires and fully embrace their kinks without shame. In this episode, we discuss: The psychology behind medical and dental fetishes How Deva transitioned into becoming a professional dominatrix The intricate balance of pain and pleasure in BDSM The importance of safe spaces for exploring fetishes Why kink shouldn’t be taboo and how it can be a form of self-empowerment For anyone curious about the world of fetish exploration, BDSM dynamics, and power exchange, this documentary offers a rare and insightful look into the hidden world of medical and dental domination. Follow Deva on Instagram: @deva_dom Follow Amanda on Instagram: @amanda.sandst For more underground fetish culture and exclusive interviews, follow Playful Magazine on Instagram: @playful.mag

Grace Dahl: Amsterdam vs. Berlin and Her Take on ‘TikTok Techno’ When you think of the techno scene, the names Amsterdam and Berlin inevitably come to mind. Both cities have long been seen as pillars of underground electronic music, each offering a distinct energy that has shaped the genre over the years. Known for her powerful, hypnotic techno, Grace Dahl is no stranger to the intricacies of the techno scene. From her formative years as a teenager to where she is today, Grace has grown into an artist with an abundance of self-confidence, attitude, and a drive to make her mark in the global techno landscape. In this conversation, we dive into the nuances of her journey, the contrasting scenes of Amsterdam and Berlin, and her take on the rapid growth of the scene—especially when it comes to the rise of ‘TikTok techno’ and the responsibility that comes with being a DJ. From Teenager to Techno Powerhouse: The Transformation of Grace Dahl The Grace Dahl you see today wasn’t always the same. Reflecting on her teenage years, she acknowledges the personal transformation that’s taken place—not just musically, but emotionally and mentally. “I used to be much more reserved,” she says. “It’s taken time, but now I have more confidence in myself, my sound, and my presence in the scene.” It’s clear that this self-assurance has been integral to Grace's rise within the techno world. Her signature sound, marked by relentless hypnotic grooves, has earned her recognition, but it’s the attitude she’s brought to her sets and the industry that’s truly set her apart. The transition from a more insecure teenager to a self-assured artist speaks volumes about the power of growth in the electronic music world. Grace reflects on how her evolution mirrors the changes she’s witnessed in the techno scene over the years, with a particular focus on how the pressure to conform has shifted in both Amsterdam and Berlin. Amsterdam vs. Berlin: Two Cities, One Scene, Different Vibes When comparing Amsterdam and Berlin, the differences between these two techno capitals are striking. Grace, who has made both cities a part of her journey, is in the perfect position to provide an insider’s perspective. “Berlin is always going to be the birthplace of techno,” she says, acknowledging the city’s storied history and iconic venues that continue to shape the genre. Berlin is gritty, experimental, and brimming with underground energy. But, in Grace’s view, Amsterdam is slowly growing its own distinct identity. “Amsterdam’s scene is a lot younger, a bit fresher, and there’s a sense of curiosity in the air,” she adds. Both cities have their own unique vibe, and for Grace, moving between them has taught her a lot about herself and her place within the broader techno movement. The scene in Amsterdam is undeniably growing at a fast pace, but the question remains: how will it evolve in the face of rapid change? As the techno scene expands globally, both Amsterdam and Berlin must reckon with what it means to remain true to the roots of techno while also embracing the changing dynamics of the culture. The Rise of ‘TikTok Techno’: A Blessing or a Curse? One of the most fascinating parts of the conversation with Grace Dahl centers around the rise of ‘TikTok techno’—the phenomenon of short, catchy techno tracks gaining massive traction on the social media platform. With TikTok now playing a huge role in the discovery of new music, DJs and producers are seeing their tracks go viral in ways that weren’t possible before. But what does this mean for the integrity of the scene? “For me, TikTok has definitely brought a new dimension to music discovery,” Grace explains. “But the focus on short clips and viral content can sometimes trivialize the depth of techno.” The short-form nature of TikTok doesn’t allow for the nuance or storytelling that defines techno as a genre. Grace worries that the shift towards more commercialized and formulaic sounds could dilute the authenticity of the scene in the long run. This concern isn’t just about artistic integrity, though—it’s about the impact on the DJ's role in the scene. “DJs are often seen as the face of the scene, but what responsibility do we have?” Grace asks. “When we’re playing to big crowds, how much do we influence what people listen to and how they perceive techno?” For Grace, being a DJ isn’t just about playing the hits—it’s about fostering a deeper connection with the audience and preserving the roots of the genre. Grace Dahl: Amsterdam vs. Berlin and Her Take on ‘TikTok Techno’ The Responsibility of the DJ: Are We More Than Just Party-Starters? Grace Dahl’s perspective on DJing is refreshing—she doesn’t see herself merely as someone who entertains. She believes that the role of a DJ is far more complex, with a certain level of responsibility to the community. “It’s about guiding the audience through a journey,” she says. “It’s about creating a vibe that’s immersive, where people can lose themselves in the music.” This sense of responsibility also extends to how DJs represent the genre. In a time when techno is being thrust into the mainstream by platforms like TikTok, the question remains: is the true spirit of the music still intact, or is it being watered down for the sake of viral moments? Grace stresses that it’s up to DJs like her to keep the essence of techno alive, even in an age of instant gratification and fast-paced trends. “As DJs, we have the power to shape what people hear and how they experience the music. And that’s a responsibility I don’t take lightly,” she says. Conclusion: The Future of Techno and Grace Dahl’s Role in It As the techno scene continues to evolve and adapt to the digital age, artists like Grace Dahl remain key players in preserving the genre’s roots. Her unapologetic approach to music, her strong self-confidence, and her commitment to a deeper connection with the audience make her an integral part of the movement’s future. For Grace, the evolution of techno is both exciting and challenging. But one thing is clear: whether in Amsterdam, Berlin, or anywhere in between, techno will always have a place for artists who stay true to the art form—and Grace Dahl is undoubtedly one of them.

A navel fetish, or alvinophilia , may not be as widely discussed as other kinks, but for many, the belly button holds a deep erotic fascination. Whether it’s the shape, texture, or playful possibilities, this unique fetish draws interest from people across age groups and cultures. So, what makes the navel such a sensual trigger, and how can you explore this fetish safely and consensually? Exploring the Appeal of a Navel Fetish What Is a Navel Fetish? A navel fetish involves sexual arousal from the belly button area—whether it’s seeing, touching, licking, or adorning it. This kink can also extend to clothing or accessories that emphasize the navel, like crop tops, belly chains, or piercings. For some, the navel’s allure lies in its aesthetic beauty; for others, it’s a taboo body part that adds excitement and intrigue. There’s no single “right” way to enjoy a navel fetish—it’s about exploring what arouses you. Why Are People Attracted to Belly Buttons? The fascination with belly buttons often stems from a mix of psychological, visual, and sensory factors. Here are a few reasons why navels can be so enticing: Visual Appeal : The navel is a natural focal point of the midsection, especially when highlighted by fashion or body adornments. Sensual Zone : The belly button is surrounded by nerve endings, making it a sensitive spot that responds to touch, light kisses, or tickling. Taboo Excitement : Fetishes often thrive on the allure of the forbidden, and the navel, though visible, can feel intimate and slightly taboo. Symbolism : The navel can represent vulnerability, connection (as the former umbilical link), and sensuality. Cultural Influence : Belly dancing, fashion trends, and body piercings have all contributed to the eroticization of the navel throughout history. Exploring the Appeal of a Navel Fetish How to Explore a Navel Fetish If you or your partner are curious about incorporating navel play into your intimacy, communication is essential. Here’s how you can start: Open the Conversation : Share your interest with your partner in a relaxed, non-judgmental way. Consent and understanding are key. Sensory Exploration : Start by caressing, kissing, or lightly tickling the navel to explore sensations. Use oils or lotions to enhance the experience. Play with Temperature : Try ice cubes or warm breath to tease the sensitive skin around the navel. Incorporate Accessories : Belly chains, crop tops, and piercings can highlight the area and add visual excitement. Use Your Tongue : Gentle licking or sucking around the belly button can be deeply arousing for some. Combine with Other Fetishes : A navel fetish often pairs well with other kinks, like bondage or role play, where exposing the midriff becomes part of the scene. Common Navel Fetish Practices Navel Worship : Kissing, licking, or touching the navel as a form of adoration. Belly Button Piercing Play : Admiring or tugging on jewelry can enhance the fetish. Sensory Teasing : Using feathers, oils, or light touch to explore the area. Belly Button Licking : Combining oral stimulation with teasing. Role Play : Scenarios that highlight the navel, such as belly dancer fantasies or midriff-focused teasing. Exploring the Appeal of a Navel Fetish Is a Navel Fetish Normal? Absolutely! While it may not be as widely discussed as other kinks, a navel fetish is perfectly natural. Fetishes often develop from personal experiences, cultural exposure, or the brain’s association between certain body parts and arousal. As long as it’s consensual and enjoyable for all involved, exploring this kink can add fun and intimacy to your relationship. Tips for Safe and Fun Navel Play Hygiene First : Keep the navel clean to avoid infections, especially during licking or play involving oils. Check for Sensitivity : Some people are ticklish or uncomfortable with navel play—communicate and check in regularly. Be Gentle : Avoid applying too much pressure, as the navel area can be sensitive. Piercing Awareness : If piercings are involved, be cautious to avoid tugging too hard or causing irritation. Exploring the Community If you want to connect with others who share a fascination with navels, online forums and kink-friendly platforms like FetLife  often have dedicated groups and discussions. You might also find like-minded individuals at BDSM or fetish events where body worship is celebrated. A navel fetish offers a unique and exciting way to explore intimacy, blending sensual touch, visual allure, and playful teasing. Whether you’re drawn to the aesthetic beauty of a pierced belly button, the sensitivity of the area, or the thrill of taboo exploration, this kink can be as simple or as adventurous as you like. Remember, open communication and mutual consent are the keys to making any fetish enjoyable. So why not explore the sensual possibilities of the belly button and discover something new with your partner?

Miss Bashful: The Queen of "Slut Techno" on Embracing Sexuality and Playful Rebellion How Miss Bashful is Redefining Techno with Humor, Sex Positivity, and Raw Attitude Born in Mexico City and raised in Texas, Miss Bashful is the rising techno provocateur making waves with her unapologetically playful yet bold sound. Known for coining the term "Slut Techno", her music blends hard-hitting beats with sarcastic, tongue-in-cheek lyrics that challenge societal norms around beauty, sexuality, and self-expression. With tracks like "Sluts Have Feelings Too" , she embraces hyper-feminine ironic aesthetics while turning stereotypes on their head, creating a subversive and electrifying space within the techno scene. From Texas to Berlin: Finding Her Sound and Herself In this Playful Magazine documentary, we dive deep into Miss Bashful’s journey—from her teenage years exploring her identity to her first experiences in Berlin’s underground techno scene. She shares how growing up in Texas shaped her perspective on sexual liberation, and how Berlin provided the perfect backdrop for her self-exploration. With candid reflections on self-discovery, music, and the culture shock of her first move to Berlin, Miss Bashful unveils the personal and artistic evolution that led to her unique sound. Her music isn’t just about fun—it’s a statement, a rebellion, and an invitation for listeners to embrace their own desires without shame. Miss Bashful: The Queen of "Slut Techno" on Embracing Sexuality and Playful Rebellion The Power of "Slut Techno" Miss Bashful’s music thrives on irony and empowerment. In a genre often dominated by dark, serious themes, she injects humor and self-awareness, turning the male gaze into a joke while reclaiming femininity and sexuality as a force of power. Whether she’s raving about the struggles of being "too hot to handle" or crafting beats that pulse with raw energy, she’s making her mark by defying expectations and refusing to conform. In this episode, we talk about: How she discovered her inner and outer "slut" at an early age The challenges and triumphs of being a female techno artist The contrast between her life in Texas and Berlin Her artistic process and what inspired her to start producing music Miss Bashful is not just another DJ—she’s a statement. A movement. A reminder that techno can be both provocative and playful, and that in a scene often obsessed with seriousness, there’s nothing more radical than having fun. Follow Miss Bashful on Instagram: @missbashful_xoxo Follow Amanda on Instagram: @amanda.sandst For more exclusive interviews and underground music stories, follow Playful Magazine on Instagram: @playful.mag