10 Sex Moves That’ll Blow Her Away

How to Blow Her Mind (Not Just Her Body): 10 Sex Surprises She’ll Actually Love

The internet is drowning in sex tips that sound like they were written by someone who’s never seen a naked human being. (No, she does not want you to "surprise" her with a popsicle.) If you actually want to catch her off guard and turn her on, you need to be a little smarter—and braver. Here's how to do it.

1. Send a Not-So-Innocent Text... While You're Still in the Room

Forget sexting when you're apart. Send her something filthy while you're sitting next to her on the couch. Watch her squirm. Then follow through.

2. Turn the Bedroom Into a Strip Club (and You’re the Dancer)

Not just pulling off your shirt like a lost tourist. Full choreography. Music. Terrible (perfect) hip movements. Let her laugh — it’s foreplay.

3. Command Her

If she’s into it (hint: most are, if you read the room right), take charge in a new way. No questions, no "is this okay?" Just "lie down," "don't move," "hands above your head." Confidence = sex.

4. Use a Blindfold (Cheap, Easy, Effective)

When you take away her sight, everything feels hotter. Hands, breath, skin—it's all amplified. Bonus: it’s impossible to see you doing something weird.

5. Surprise Her with Toys (But Good Ones)

No joke gifts from a sketchy sex shop. Something high-end and serious (hello, We-Vibe). Make her feel like you actually researched it, not like you were dared.

6. Flip the Script: Oral, but Make It Worship

Take your time. Like, too much time. Make it about her only, without angling for your turn. Let her get uncomfortable with how much you’re giving.

7. Show Up Somewhere Unexpected (With Consent)

Pick her up at work, take her somewhere. Anywhere. A "surprise" hotel room is cliché, but a different city bar with bathrooms you intend to defile? Now we're talking.

8. Wake Her Up With It

Yes, you need her prior permission for sleepy sex. But if it’s a greenlight situation, there's no better alarm clock than your mouth.

9. Secret Outfit Under Clothes

A body harness. A crotchless situation. Lingerie that makes dressing at all seem hilarious. Reveal yourself like a magician with a filthy secret.

10. Take It Somewhere New (Literally)

No more bed-only routines. The floor, the couch, a windowsill, the kitchen counter. Bonus points for carpet burns.