How to Make Her Squirt: Inside a Female Ejaculation Course
- Filip
- 3 days ago
- 3 min read
Let’s start with the obvious: yes, squirting is real. No, it’s not peeing. And no, you don’t need to have pornstar fingers or tantric guru status to make it happen.
But you do need a good sense of anatomy, a genuine desire to explore, and the ability to pay attention when her body whispers “yes” instead of waiting for it to scream. This isn’t about flexing your ego — it’s about learning what female ejaculation actually is, what it isn’t, and how to show up with curiosity instead of expectations.
What Is Squirting, Really?
Squirting — also called female ejaculation — is the release of fluid (through the urethra) that some people with vulvas experience when the G-spot is stimulated in a very specific way. Some squirt just a little. Some a lot. Some never at all. And guess what? It’s all normal.
“It’s not about pressure. It’s about rhythm, depth, and listening.”
The fluid is not urine — although it may contain traces — and it’s definitely not a requirement for good sex. But for those who want to explore it, the experience can feel powerful, emotional, and incredibly cathartic. Not just “wet” — but release.
Let’s be clear: you won’t make anyone squirt by poking their clit like it’s a video game controller.
What you’re looking for is the G-spot, located 1.5 to 2 inches inside the front vaginal wall (towards the belly button). It often has a slightly ridged, spongier texture.
This is where the Skene’s glands live — aka the paraurethral glands — which are thought to produce the fluid expelled during squirting.
Tip: Some people enjoy having their bladder somewhat full when experimenting, as it enhances sensation and increases pressure near the G-spot.
Step 2: Set the Mood Right
This part isn’t optional. No one is going to feel safe enough to squirt if they’re self-conscious, tense, or trying to perform for your ego.
Use clean towels or a waterproof sheet — not for your comfort, but so she doesn’t feel like she’s “making a mess.”
Offer reassurance that there’s no pressure — literally or emotionally.
Use lube. Use more lube. Then more.
Consent and communication: always ask, never assume.
“The more safe she feels, the more she’ll let go — and that’s what squirting is: letting go.”
Step 3: Start Slow — Then Slow Down More
Don’t go straight to the G-spot. Build arousal first. This isn’t a sprint — it’s a slow climb that ends in surrender.
Kissing, nipples, inner thighs. Clitoral stimulation is still key — even if it’s not directly part of the squirt.
Finger inside, pad up: once she’s ready, insert 1-2 lubed fingers, curved upward toward the belly. Make a gentle “come hither” motion.
Go for pressure, not poking. A steady, firm rhythm. It’s not about depth — it’s about angle, connection, and breathing.
Step 4: Watch for Cues
Squirting often feels like a deep, swelling pressure — one that can feel like needing to pee. Most women are taught to suppress that feeling. So, she might resist.
“Tell her it’s okay. Encourage her to release. Hold eye contact if she’s into that. Laugh if it feels awkward. Let it be messy.”
You might feel her G-spot swell slightly. Her breathing might change. Her hips might buck or twitch. Don’t rush it.
If she wants to stop, stop. If she wants to keep going, follow her lead.
Step 5: Don’t Obsess Over the Outcome
Not everyone squirts. Not every time. And chasing it too hard can ruin the vibe. Stay present. Celebrate whatever happens.
Whether it’s a tidal wave, a trickle, or nothing at all — the fact that you explored her body with care and curiosity already puts you ahead of most.
Bonus Tips for Squirting Success
Toys can help: Try a curved G-spot dildo (like the Njoy Pure Wand or Fun Factory Stronic).
Positioning matters: Lying flat, with hips elevated, can help. Or on all fours with you behind for deeper access.
Double stimulation: G-spot + clit = magic.
Aftercare always: Even a powerful orgasm can leave someone feeling vulnerable. Clean her up, cuddle, ask how she feels.
How to Make a Woman Squirt
Learn her anatomy (the G-spot is your target).
Build trust and arousal first.
Use your fingers with curved, rhythmic pressure.
Let her body guide the way.
Don’t make squirting the goal — make pleasure the goal, and squirting may follow.
Conclusion: Squirting isn’t a trick you perform on someone. It’s a full-body, full-trust experience that happens with them. It’s not about making her prove something — it’s about letting her feel everything.
