SEX POSITIVITY

There’s something about water. Not in the wellness influencer kind of way, but in the let-it-drench-you-while-you’re-tied-to-the-tub kind of way. The kind of intimacy that fogs up the bathroom mirror, seeps into your skin, and turns a shower into a stage for fantasy. For people with aquaphilia—a fetish for water in all its forms—this isn’t a cute side effect. It’s the main event.

From kink skepticism to full-time domination—how this instructor turned taboo into education at BDSM studio Lux

Here’s the thing: oral sex is not a pit stop on the way to “real sex.” It is real sex. In fact, for many women, it’s the only type of sex that consistently delivers orgasms. So if you’ve been treating going down on her like a quick warm-up or a box to check before penetration? You’re missing the point. And the clit.

Berlin’s nightlife is legendary for a reason: when the sun goes down, the city transforms into a playground of neon, sweat, and borderline-absurd adult entertainment. From jaw-dropping pole acrobatics to clandestine cabaret and everything in between, these are the spots that keep locals and curious visitors coming back for more.

There’s a certain kind of turn-on that doesn’t make sense until you’re in it — the kind that’s too hot to be wholesome, too wrong to be respectable. The thought you wouldn’t dare say out loud, unless you whisper it while someone’s hand is around your throat. That’s taboo. And for a lot of us, it’s the engine under our kink.

There’s a version of femdom most people think they know — one built from search bars and porn thumbnails. The latex-wrapped woman with a whip and no heart, reducing grown men to human ashtrays. The Ice Queen. The financial dominatrix. The cold, cruel cliché.

There’s a moment in nearly every D/s dynamic where the line between desire and emotional need begins to blur. Maybe it’s when a submissive begs to be owned. Maybe it’s when a Dominant feels anxious if they’re not being obeyed. Maybe it’s when a casual scene starts to feel like something else entirely.

It’s the part no one talks about. The burnout behind the boots. The fatigue beneath the fantasy. Because when you're the one holding the leash — the one designing the scenes, enforcing the rules, setting the tone — the last thing people expect is for you to feel overworked. But Domme burnout is real. And it's not just physical exhaustion — it's emotional depletion, mental load, decision fatigue, and the quiet pressure of always being the one in charge.

Power exchange can be electric. Rituals can feel sacred. Being under someone’s control—willingly, consensually, reverently—is the kind of submission that can rewire the body. But even in the most worshipful of dynamics, submissives are still human. With boundaries. Needs. Fears they might not always know how to voice.

Saying “I have a fetish” can feel like dropping a bomb in a candlelit room. Even today — where we swipe through hookup apps like Netflix shows and kink seems pretty mainstream — actually opening your mouth and naming a desire (especially a niche one) can make you feel like you’ve just confessed to worshiping aliens or collecting toenails. How to Share Your Fetish With a Partner (Without Freaking Them Out)

Why do some people get turned on by leather, while others can’t climax without being watched, tied up, or called names? Why do certain objects — latex gloves, high heels, feet — become more than props, turning into erotic lightning rods? And why, despite centuries of shame and pathologizing, do fetishes keep surfacing, generation after generation?

There’s something about the cold, clinical edge of medical play that hits differently. The sterile gloves. The soft snap of latex. The delicious power imbalance between patient and practitioner. It’s a kink that walks a tightrope between care and control — and for many, it’s less about pain and more about precision, performance, and psychological intensity.

Power exchange, when done right, is psychological. It’s erotic, it’s emotional, and it’s deeply personal. So what does it really mean to train your submissive partner—especially in a home setting? And how do you do it without slipping into cringe or clichés? This isn't about role-playing 1950s housewives or barking orders just because. It's about building rituals of obedience, trust, pleasure, and surrender. Think of it less like military bootcamp and more like sensual co

When I first started exploring femdom, I had no idea what I was doing. I thought I had to show up in latex, armed with a whip and a flawless Domme persona. Spoiler: I didn’t. And neither do you.

When does consensual kink cross into control? Exploring the psychology and pitfalls of financial domination.

Unleash your dominant energy and discover the Domme archetype that lives inside you.

Your long weekend just got a lot more NSFW. From slapstick drag cabarets to sleek sex-positive restaurants, here’s where to eat, watch, and misbehave. There’s a growing breed of traveler that isn’t just looking for a hotel and a museum. They want nipple clamps with their croissant. They want a velvet-curtained cabaret instead of a Netflix binge in their Airbnb.

When most people think of BDSM, they immediately imagine leather, whips, orgasms, and explicit scenes that belong in an X-rated movie. But in reality, a whole world exists within kink that has nothing to do with sex — and for many, it’s even more intimate that way.

Fifty years ago today, more than 100 sex workers occupied a church in Lyon, France. They weren’t there to pray. They were protesting — against police violence, criminalization, and the daily harassment that came with doing their jobs. It was June 2nd, 1975. And it sparked a movement.

A lot of women are curious about stepping into the role of a Domme — but hesitate. Maybe you don’t feel naturally “dominant.” Maybe you’re scared to get it wrong. Or maybe the online version of femdom — all latex, stiletto heels and brutal degradation — doesn’t quite fit you.

You’ve seen the videos. A high-heeled woman crushes a man’s ego — and sometimes his genitals — with cartoonish cruelty. She spits insults, walks him on a leash, maybe even locks him in a cage. But is that what Female Domination (Femdom) actually looks like in real life?

So you’ve booked your ticket, polished your boots, and found yourself halfway across Europe, staring down the entrance of a legendary fetish event. Maybe it’s Wasteland in Amsterdam, Folsom Europe in Berlin, or a secret latex soirée in Paris. Whatever the case — you're excited, a little terrified, and wondering if you’re about to make a total fool of yourself.

You don’t need a leather throne or a submissive on a leash 24/7 to practice Female Domination. You can build an authentic, deeply satisfying Femdom dynamic in your living room — over coffee, over dinner, or under the covers — with intention and clarity.

Confidence as a Domme doesn’t magically arrive with your first flogger. It’s cultivated — like any skill — through experience, intention, and mindset shifts.

Not all kink is about bruises and bondage. Sometimes, the most intense experiences come from the gentlest touch — or even no touch at all. Sensation play is a deeply intimate style of BDSM that focuses on heightening physical awareness, awakening the skin, and creating erotic tension through contrast — heat and chill, rough and soft, whisper and silence.

Whether you're looking for a luxe BDSM loveroom near Paris or a secret dungeon hideaway in Berlin, these properties cater to those in the know—without sacrificing taste, comfort, or discretion. Many are hidden behind anonymous facades and minimalist listing copy, known best through word-of-mouth, curated kink communities, or niche corners of platforms like KinkBNB and misterb&b.

Forget the Mile High Club. The real edge lies lower — on the rails, cutting through misty mountain ranges, urban sprawls, and European coastlines. Welcome to the world of kinky train travel, where erotic fantasies find a home between stops, in quiet carriages, and maybe even the WC.

In the world of kink, few things are as taboo — or as misunderstood — as sounding. Also known as urethral play, this niche fetish involves inserting slender tools (called sounds) into the urethra for intense physical and psychological stimulation. It’s not for everyone — but for those who get it, it’s everything.

What Is Forniphilia? It sounds like a niche design trend — but forniphilia isn’t about chairs. Not exactly. Forniphilia is a highly specific fetish where a person is transformed into a piece of furniture. Think: a table made of flesh, a lamp with a heartbeat, or a footstool that moans softly when you shift your weight. This kink lives at the intersection of BDSM, objectification, performance art, and erotic absurdity — and it’s very real.

What Is Nullification? At first glance, it might sound like a sci-fi concept — or a deleted scene from Ghost in the Shell. But nullification is a real fetish rooted in the erotic fascination with removing bodily features. Think smooth, featureless torsos, blurred anatomy, masked faces, and the surreal visual of a completely uniform, almost synthetic body.

What Is a Lactation Fetish? It’s one of the more whispered-about kinks — often misunderstood, rarely discussed publicly, but quietly common: the lactation fetish, also known as adult nursing fetish or breastfeeding kink. At its core, it’s a sexual or emotional fascination with the act of lactation — the flow, the taste, the ritual. For some, it’s about submission and surrender. For others, it’s about dominance, ownership, nurturing, or even the aesthetics of fluid. And yes, t

A structure for service, obedience, and sexy discipline — one day at a time. If you’re in any kind of power exchange dynamic — especially a Female-Led Relationship (FLR) or ongoing D/s setup — structure is the love language. Submissives thrive when they know what’s expected, when it’s due, and how to excel in it. But knowing that and actually implementing it are two very different things. That’s where a Weekly Task Calendar comes in.

What Is Macrophilia? Macrophilia — literally meaning “lover of the large” — is a fetish involving an intense sexual. For some, that means fantasizing about being shrunken down and dominated by a towering woman. For others, it’s about crushing, vore (being eaten), or being overpowered in a surreal, larger-than-life way. While it may sound like pure fantasy (and it often is), it’s one of the most creative, psychological, and deeply felt fetishes out there.

What Is Drone Fetish? In the world of kink and fetish, submission takes many forms — but few are as visually striking or psychologically charged as drone fetish. Also known as drone play, this kink explores the transformation of a person into a mindless, obedient being — often dressed in identical suits, masks, or latex, stripped of individuality, and programmed to serve.

What Is Cum Control? At first glance, it sounds simple: someone else decides when — or if — you’re allowed to orgasm. But in the world of kink, cum control is anything but basic. It’s a power exchange rooted in psychological dominance, physical restraint, and raw erotic anticipation. Sometimes called orgasm control, cum denial, or chastity kink, this fetish isn’t just about climax — it’s about owning the space between arousal and release.

The internet has always been a double-edged whip for kinksters — one side liberation, the other shadow bans. But in 2025, despite the tightening grip of platform censorship and algorithmic suppression, fetish communities haven’t disappeared — they’ve just evolved.

Ready to Explore Kink? Start With the Right Tools. Diving into the world of BDSM doesn’t mean diving into the deep end. For newcomers, finding the right gear — that feels safe, consensual, and sexy — is key. Whether you’re a couple looking to experiment or someone exploring solo, this 2025 guide gives you a no-nonsense breakdown of what to buy, why it matters, and where to get it.

Because authority doesn’t clock out at bedtime. What if dominance wasn’t just something you roleplayed on the weekends, but the architecture your entire relationship lived inside? That’s the energy of a 24/7 Female-Led Relationship (FLR): not a game, but a structure. Not a scene, but a blueprint. And yes — it requires more than a strap-on and a safeword.

What if seduction was a skill you could learn—not to please others, but to empower yourself? Somewhere between the neon glow of Berlin nightlife and the grit of everyday hustle lies Slut Riot — a collective of strippers, performers, and sex workers refusing to be defined by anyone but themselves.

Berlin might be the capital of kink, but Europe is full of cities where fetish isn’t just accepted — it’s celebrated. Whether you’re into dungeons, latex, rope, or just want a sensual escape without judgment, these ten destinations deliver on intimacy, community, and scene diversity. Here’s where to book your next fetish-forward getaway.

City play is great. But sometimes what you crave is total escape — far from the eyes of neighbors, the din of nightlife, or the scent of cleaning spray in someone’s Kreuzberg dungeon. Imagine instead: flogging beneath the open sky. Spreader bars by candlelight in a converted farmhouse. A place where you can scream without being heard, and feel something deeper than just the next scene.

The age of the creator economy has gone full throttle — and for kink and fetish content creators, there's never been a more powerful time to take control of your own fantasies (and turn them into passive income).

In a world of digital filters, clinical perfumes, and sanitised sex, some kinks pull us back to something raw. Scent fetishism — especially the musky obsession with armpits — is one of the most primal. And yes, it’s real, it’s growing, and it smells like sex.

There’s a kink that’s been quietly threading its way through the corners of erotic forums, whispered across OnlyFans captions, and layered into some of the most popular adult content searches: breeding kink.

Pies in the face. Buckets of slime. Whipped cream fights that end in moaning. It might sound like a surreal children’s game show or the outtakes of a comedy sketch — but for a growing community, it’s a serious turn-on. Welcome to the sticky, squishy world of WAM.

Whether you're a latex-lover, rope enthusiast, or just here to worship the human form in all its liberated glory, Europe’s kink calendar is bursting at the seams with leather, lace, and liberation. From heavy-hitters like Folsom Europe to avant-garde rituals tucked into old castles, these are the fetish festivals worth booking your flights (and packing your gear) for.

Hotwifing is no longer just a niche fantasy hidden in online forums — it's becoming a widely explored dynamic in modern open relationships. But what exactly is hotwifing? And what’s it like to live that life?

Joachim and Janina have been together for over a decade — and for the last several years, they’ve also shared an open relationship. In this honest and insightful conversation, the Berlin-based couple opens up about the challenges, breakthroughs, and the keys to building trust and emotional safety in non-monogamy.

You’ve probably seen erotic hypnosis pop up in a late-night Google spiral or a shady Reddit thread. It sounds almost too good to be true: a few whispered words, and suddenly you’re a sex god with stamina for days?

If you’ve ever used the terms kink and fetish interchangeably, you’re not alone. In everyday conversations — even in sex-positive spaces — they often get blurred. But for anyone diving deeper into BDSM or exploring their own desires, understanding the difference between a kink and a fetish matters. It’s not just semantics. It’s about how we’re wired.