10 Sex Moves That’ll Blow Him Away

How to Ruin Him (In the Best Way): 10 Sex Surprises Guys Secretly Dream About

He’s not as hard to surprise as you think. (Sorry.) Men love sex surprises the way raccoons love trash: instantly, completely, no questions asked. Here’s how to break his brain in 10 deeply unfair moves.

1. Start Without Warning

Just...get on him. Initiate when he’s least expecting it (watching Netflix, brushing his teeth, halfway tying his shoe). His soul will leave his body.

2. Get Bossy

"Lie down." "Don't touch me until I say." Men are even bigger suckers for dominance than they admit. Reverse the cliché: you’re in charge now.

3. Use Your Mouth Somewhere Unexpected

Ears, neck, the spot behind the knee, his lower back — all underrated real estate. A guy’s body isn’t a straight line to his dick. Explore.

4. Blindfold Him

Tie something around his eyes, and suddenly he’s putty. Bonus: he'll feel like everything is happening at double intensity.

5. Tie His Hands (Yes, Really)

Even just lightly — like with a scarf or belt. It short-circuits the whole “must be in control” vibe he walks around with all day.

6. Tell Him Exactly What You’re Thinking

Men die for dirty talk. Not porn quotes — your actual thoughts. “I can’t stop thinking about what your hands do to me.” Watch him malfunction.

7. Give Him a Lap Dance (No Laughing)

Bad dancing encouraged. Think sloppy, hot, semi-dressed. This is not about technique. It’s about his brain shutting down under the visual.

8. Surprise Him With a Little Pain (Carefully)

Bite, scratch, grab. Not like you’re trying to end him, but enough to wake up his nervous system. Controlled roughness = instant obsession.

9. Make It All About Him

Tonight, he doesn’t have to do anything. No foreplay tax, no performance anxiety. Just lie there and take it.

10. Say "No" (Until You Say Yes)

Consent games, if you’re into it: playful resistance, teasing, denying him just long enough to make him wild. Then give in, like you couldn’t help it.