Femdom Task and Punishment Ideas: FLR Rituals of Discipline at Home
- Filip
- May 30
- 1 min read
Confidence as a Domme doesn’t magically arrive with your first flogger. It’s cultivated — like any skill — through experience, intention, and mindset shifts.
Reframe the Power Dynamic
You’re not being "mean." You're fulfilling a role you both consented to. Power is sexy, not cruel. Trust in your right to direct, control, and receive service. Your dominance is a gift — not a burden.
Ritual Builds Confidence
Create a pre-scene ritual (perfume, playlist, heels, lipstick)
Use affirmations: “I am in control. He gives me power freely.”
Set rules. Rules reinforce control — even small ones build structure
Play With Voice and Presence
Speak slowly and with finality — leave no room for doubt
Use eye contact as a leash
Touch with intention: slow, deliberate, unhurried control
Set Simple Scenes
Start small:
Order them to kneel while you scroll your phone
Control when and how they orgasm (or if)
Give commands during sex — and correct if they hesitate
Confidence grows when your commands are met with obedience. Practice makes powerful.
