How to Curate an Online Domination Session: Humiliation, Horniness, and Control (No Toys Required)
- Filip
- Oct 4
- 3 min read
So you’ve found yourself a submissive online. He wants to feel small, ridiculous, owned. He’s begging to be put in a cage, forced to eat from a dog bowl, humiliated until he’s dripping—but surprise: his apartment looks like an IKEA showroom, and he owns zero gear. No cage. No bowl. Nothing but his laptop, a shaky Wi-Fi connection, and an overactive imagination.
Good news: that’s all you need.
With the right script, you can turn even the most basic setting into a one-hour online domination session that’s filthy, humiliating, and—most importantly—hot as hell. Here’s how to structure it.
Step 1: Set the Scene (10 minutes)
Start with control. Before anything sexual happens, lock the frame.
Script Idea:
Make him strip completely naked, camera angled so you can see every inch of him.
Have him kneel on the floor. No furniture. No comfort.
Rename him. Don’t call him by his real name—give him something degrading: Dog, Worm, Toy, Slut. Every time he forgets, punish him (more on that soon).
Add ritual: have him bow his head, repeat a phrase like “I belong to you, I exist for your amusement.”
The goal here is submission before stimulation. You’re not his chat buddy—you’re his owner.
Step 2: Replace the Cage (15 minutes)
No cage? No problem. You don’t need metal bars to make him feel trapped.
Creative Substitutes:
Closet time: Send him into his closet, naked, with the camera on the floor. Have him squat inside, hugging his knees, calling it his “cage.”
Furniture jail: Order him under a chair or table and tell him he’s not allowed to move until you say so.
Mental cage: Use countdowns, restrictions, and denial as the bars. Remind him: “Even without walls, you’re locked exactly where I want you.”
Layer humiliation: make him bark, pant, or crawl in tight circles. Being ridiculous is the point. The hotter he feels about being stupid, the deeper the submissive humiliation play goes.
Step 3: Eating from the Bowl (10 minutes)
Sure, he doesn’t own a dog bowl. But every kitchen has something humiliating.
Script Idea:
Order him to fetch a mixing bowl or Tupperware. That’s his “dog bowl.”
Pour in water, or if you’re cruel: milk, beer, or something gross-but-safe like cold pasta.
Make him lap it up, no hands, eyes on you.
Remind him: “Good dogs don’t eat like humans. Good dogs lick.”
For extra humiliation: have him practice begging before he’s allowed to drink. Or make him eat snacks off the floor, one crumb at a time.
Step 4: Eroticism Through Degradation (15 minutes)
Now that he’s humiliated, flip the switch: make it sexy. Humiliation isn’t about cruelty—it’s about arousal through control.
Ideas:
Make him stroke himself but force him to stop every time he moans.
Call him your “horny little animal” and laugh at his desperation.
Have him hump the floor, pillow, or nothing at all.
Play with contradiction: “You’re pathetic. You’re disgusting. And you’re so fucking hot when you do what I say.”
This is where humiliation meets desire—the sweet spot where feeling ridiculous becomes the turn-on.
Step 5: The Finale (10 minutes)
Close the session with release—or denial, if that’s your style.
Script Options:
Orgasm Control: Make him beg, degrade himself (say how small his cock is, how useless he is, how much he needs permission), then allow him to cum on the floor like the pet he is.
Orgasm Denial: Edge him hard, then cut him off: “Pathetic dogs don’t deserve release.” He’ll log off aching and even more desperate to serve.
Ritual Close: Command him to thank you, clean himself in a humiliating way (lick his own mess, crawl to the shower on all fours), and sign off still in subspace.
Tips for a Killer Online Domination Session
Voice is the tool. Slow, commanding, amused—control him with tone as much as words.
Humiliation is tailored. Some subs love being called useless. Others prefer “dirty pet.” Ask beforehand where the line is, then dance on it.
Props aren’t required. The mind is the biggest toy. A mixing bowl can feel more humiliating than a $300 cage when wielded right.
Keep it structured. One hour should feel like a journey: submission → cage → humiliation → eroticism → climax/denial → closure.
Why It Works
Even online, virtual BDSM scripts work because they’re not about props—they’re about psychology. Humiliation makes him feel ridiculous, but being seen in that ridiculousness turns him on. You own his focus. You own his body. You own his shame.
That’s why even without a cage or a dog bowl, you can create something filthy, sexy, degrading, and unforgettable.
