Latex fetishism, sex parties and finding yourself with Terry Saunders
- Filip
- Apr 10
- 2 min read
The intersection of kink and comedy isn’t exactly the most expected pairing, but for Terry Saunders, it’s the perfect match. The latex-loving stand-up comedian has made a name for himself by blending sexuality, self-discovery, and satire into performances that leave audiences both turned on and cracking up.
In our conversation, we dive into his journey of exploring kinks, the unexpected lessons of sex parties, and why laughter is just as intimate as bondage.
From Stand-Up to Strap-Ons: Discovering Kinks Through Comedy
For most people, discovering a fetish is a private, internal experience. For Saunders, it was more like a public unveiling—on stage, mic in hand.
“Comedy is about pushing boundaries. Kink is about pushing boundaries. The two go hand in hand—sometimes literally.”
Saunders first started incorporating elements of his latex fetish and BDSM experiences into his routines as a way to break down taboos. The result? A mix of discomfort, curiosity, and a lot of awkward laughter.
“When I first started joking about latex on stage, I could see the audience trying to figure out if they were allowed to laugh. The answer is yes, always.”
Sex Parties: The Funniest Social Experiment You'll Ever Attend
While sex parties are often depicted as mysterious, elite, and hypersexual, Saunders sees them differently—as bizarrely normal, sometimes hilarious, and deeply human experiences.
“People expect wild orgies, but sometimes the most interesting thing is two naked strangers discussing mortgage rates in between flogging sessions.”
Through attending and talking about these experiences, he’s realized that sex and comedy operate on similar wavelengths—both are about connection, vulnerability, and timing.
“If you can laugh with someone while half-naked and wearing a gimp mask, that’s a real connection.”
What Kink Taught Him About Life (and Comedy)
While Saunders is quick to poke fun at the absurdity of kink spaces, he’s also deeply aware of the lessons they hold—both personally and socially.
“Kink communities understand consent better than the average person. They negotiate, they communicate, and they make sure everyone’s having a good time. Comedy could learn a thing or two from that.”
From BDSM etiquette to the freedom of self-expression, the fetish world has shaped not just his personal life but also his approach to comedy.
“Kink is about being your authentic self in a world that often tells you to hide. Comedy is the same. The best laughs come when you’re unapologetically yourself.”
Final Thoughts: Kink and Comedy as Liberation
For Terry Saunders, latex, stand-up, and sex parties aren’t just hobbies—they’re acts of self-liberation. They challenge societal norms, spark conversations, and, most importantly, bring people together through laughter and curiosity.
“Whether it’s comedy or kink, the best experiences happen when you stop caring what people think and just go for it.”
And if that means telling a room full of strangers about the awkward logistics of latex catsuits, then so be it.